What It Means When I Say 'I Do'
The Promises We Make To Build A Strong, Loving and Joy-filled Marriage by Cindy David
What the Book is all about
Have you ever considered that love is empty without promises and that your understanding of what these promises are holds the key to building a strong, loving and joy-filled marriage?
What It Means When I Say I Do offers an extraordinary and refreshing guide into strengthening your commitment-all within a span of an hour's reading!
This book contains:
A daily roadmap consisting of 35 daily promises to help you navigate the true meaning of your commitment.
Practical, actionable steps, helping you to become proactive rather than reactive in dealing with the circumstances and emotions that affect your marriage.
Beautifully written directives and effectively brought into your perspective, making them feel like they're your own personal guidelines.
Delightful and stunning illustrations that breathe life into each promise, leaving an enduring and unforgettable impression on your mind and​​ heart.
Scripture-based principles, encouraging you to centre your motivations around honouring God with your marriage.
A smooth and enjoyable read, offering a straightforward yet powerful daily resource to enhance your daily interactions with your spouse-without feeling overwhelmed and spending endless hours reading.
Whether you're contemplating commitment or have been married for years, this book is the definitive manual for love and marriage!
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Listen to audio (Promises number 1 to 3)
What people are saying about the book
It is common to remind ourselves that "love is a verb." Love is something we do before it is something we feel. In this book, Cindy offers us warm, wise, and winsome guidance on how married couples can live out love in action. Rather than framing a healthy marriage as a set of rules to be followed, Cindy draws upon the power of a promise anchored in the ocean of our deep desire to love well. Each of the thirty-five promises is expanded upon and practically grounded in the daily challenges of mutual partnership. Use this book as a conversation partner in your marriage, and it will surely bring your vows into life for the remainder of your life together.
★★★★★
Dr. Jonny Weir Director of Ministry Training, Carey Baptist College
As a pastor and celebrant, this is the book I've been waiting for! I'll be recommending and using this book in my work with couples, and in pre-marriage counselling. The writer's ability to navigate the deepest matters of the heart in such an approachable style makes this book accessible and relevant for all. No matter your age, or relationship status, What It Means When I Say 'I Do' will provide hours of engaging content for personal reflection or shared discussion with a partner.
★★★★★
Missy Ditchburn Pastor & Celebrant, Divisional Secretary, The Salvation Army NZFTS
When reading these promises I was reminded of my wedding day and the promises I made to my wife Sarah and how I need to carry out those promises every day. For those wanting to strengthen their marriages and to honour God in their relationship, then this is the perfect read for you. This book is beautifully illustrated by Sabrina David and completes a great book. Take the challenge to make a strong lasting commitment to your marriage read What it Means When I Say 'I Do'.
★★★★★
Gary Grut Senior Pastor Glen Eden Baptist
This book holds poignant wisdom to be used as a resource for couples and groups alike. Exploring the promises, which are more easily kept and which we find more challenging offers thought-provoking and enriching conversation opportunities.
★★★★★
Leanne Frost Therapist, MA Arts Psychology, GM Wellbeing Visionwest
Where to buy the book
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